Published Articles
Seeing the Odyssey Made Me Realize I was a Calypso. PROVOKED MAGAZINE
PROVOKED MAGAZINE
I, too, tried to save a man who washed up on my shores. Not once, but twice. Here’s what I learned and how you can break the pattern, too.
It Took Moving to An Ashram To Realize I was Jewish. JUDITH MAGAZINE
JUDITH MAGAZINE
I didn’t think much of my Jewish identity. I was “spiritual”, not religious. But ironically, living in a Hindu ashram changed all that.
My Madonna-Byrd Complex: One Fought Time. One Didn’t. PROVOKED MAGAZINE
PROVOKED MAGAZINE
Two sex-positive icons of my youth, now 67 and 70. Watching them age sent me looking for a third option.
How to Know When You’ve Finished a Piece of Writing. OPEN SECRETS MAGAZINE (CRAFT)
OPEN SECRETS MAGAZINE
Sometimes, when you think you’ve finished a piece of writing, you’ve just begun. In my first craft essay for writers, I discuss how to know when a piece is really done. But do we ever really know?
Abuse in the Ashram: The Predatory Cult of Baba Muktananda. LIT HUB
LIT HUB
Seeing Deepak Chopra’s name in the Epstein files inspired me to revisit what went down in the organization connected to my spiritual path. Why do men who have everything need to sexually abuse women?
Molly Was My Gateway Drug to Meditation. OPEN SECRETS MAGAZINE
OPEN SECRETS MAGAZINE
How taking the illicit 1990s psychedelic pill paved the way for me to get Zen
Three things I learned — and now tell CEOs — about toxic leadership. FORTUNE MAGAZINE
FORTUNE
When CEOs act like all-knowing gurus, it’s not good. Here’s what I recommend to my leaders instead.
My Ex Wrote Friends. Watching From an Ashram Basement Turned My Life Upside Down. PEOPLE MAGAZINE
PEOPLE MAGAZINE
Watching the characters on Friends try to figure out life together was like looking in an alternate path mirror. Why was I at an ashram, and not on TV?
The Agony and the Ecstasy of Vocational Promiscuity. MEMOIR LAND
FIRST PERSON SINGULAR / MEMOIR LAND
Having many careers that build on each-other has been one of the great things about my life. But there are some serious consequences. Maybe you relate?
The Struggle is Reel: Marketing Without Social Media. JANE FRIEDMAN BLOG
JANE FRIEDMAN BLOG
I’ve been getting a lot of pressure to use video to grow my audience for my book and clients for my leadership consulting business. Instead, I’ve decided to give in-person networking a try.
But deep down I wonder. Is it also avoidance?
I’m a Woman in my 50s. Why am I Obsessed With My 20s? PROVOKED MAGAZINE
PROVOKED MAGAZINE
I began to wonder what really drives this midlife fixation on our 20-something selves. Nostalgia? Survival? A need to reconnect with the woman we left behind? Maybe it’s all of that—and something deeper.
L.A. Affairs: Los Angeles chewed me up and spit me out. Did my husband really want us to move there? LOS ANGELES TIMES
LOS ANGELES TIMES
Was this a test? I remained silent while my mind reeled. L.A. was never a place I imagined myself thriving.
Looking for Mr. Good Enough: DOROTHY PARKER’S ASHES
DOROTHY PARKER’S ASHES
Sometimes, a “sign” is just the universe laughing at you.
A deeply personal essay about being alone on vacation after a break up.
Decreasing Drama Through Higher Ed. CHANGE MAGAZINE OF HIGHER LEARNING
WHITE PAPER in CHANGE: THE MAGAZINE OF HIGHER LEARNING
When students, professors, and faculty understand the tasks associated with their institutional roles, it can help them more easily negotiate power differentials and take conflict less personally.
The Mockingbird and Me. THE MANTLEPIECE
THE MANTLEPIECE
During Covid, although I was a woman in my 50s, I regressed to my 20s in search of the spiritual ecstasy from that time in my life. A pandemic journey from isolation to community. (p.5)
How to Sort Out Actual Jerks from those Doing Their Jobs. QUARTZ MAGAZINE
QUARTZ
When a worker's behavior is annoying, the framework of role-to-role relationships can help us make sense of our reactions so.
Changing campus protests from disruptions to learning opportunities. TIMES OF HIGHER ED
INSIDER HIGHER ED
When college protests become campus wars, everyone misses out on learning how to be an effective activist. Richard Nodell and I share what to do instead.
What to Do When the Vitriol Comes for You. BREVITY BLOG
BREVITY
With so much online vitriol being slung around, writers and leaders alike need to develop an anti-hate protocol.
The Heart Fills In. IN SHORT MAGAZINE
IN SHORT A Journal of Flash Nonfiction: Vol. I (Literary)
A micro essay on love in a time of personal crisis.
The Power of the Cookie. HUMANS OF THE WORLD
HUMANS OF THE WORLD (Literary)
A coffee date with a yoga teacher teaches me about the limits of inspiration.

