Descriptions of current and past workshops facilitated by Blair can be accessed by clicking on the tabs above.

Private intensives with individuals and couples are currently being booked for summer and fall, 2012.

UPCOMING:

Character Development
The third in a series of workshops related to work (series attendance not required), Character Development is all about engaging your creativity and achieving effectiveness in work and relationship. What role are you still enacting from the family play? Are you stuck in good girl, troublemaker, superflake, or black sheep? We will focus on the inner work of clearly identifying the "scripts" you have been taught to follow by family and others in your life, craft new roles, and practice letting go. We will focus on discernment (being able to distinguish what is healthy for you) and the outer work of creating the best types of environments, clothing and conversations that will get you where you want to be, feeling great about yourself and the kind of impact you are making in the world around you. We will join in sisterhood for a shared and in-depth exploration of::

When: Friday June 1, 3:00pm -Sunday June 3, 3:30pm; 2012
Where: SpiritPlay Studio in Woodstock, NY -- 2 hours North of NYC
Cost /accommodations: $600 includes home-cooked, organic (wherever possible) healthful meals and snacks, and dorm style accommodations (mattresses and airbeds are supplied, bedding and pillows must be brought). There are many B&B's nearby for those interested in staying off-site.

Work Workshops Series

"Character Dev." Workshop Deposit $250.00 Pay in Full $600.00

LOVERS AND LEADERS PRACTICE GROUP! FULL. Contact Blair to join wait list for next session, starting fall 2012.
NYC; 10 Alternate Wednesdays, May 2 -Aug. 22; 7-8:45 pm; Chelsea $65.00 each, or three for $180; or whole series of 10 for $585 (1 session free).

You can't develop who you want to be in a vacuum, and there is nothing that can accelerate and support your growth like a group of wise and committed women. We all struggle with making the changes that we want in our lives, and the right practices and the right group can help you develop exactly who you want to be. These groups will offer individual attention for your unique situation, and help you build the tools, connections and skills to access the courage to facilitate change in your own and other's lives. Read Testimonials for Lovers & Leaders here or by clicking "Testimonials" at the top of the page.

Pre-registration required! No need to commit to every group. Send an RSVP before the Monday of each group. 24-hour cancelation policy. Buy the groups in clusters or bulk for a discount! Send a check or pay by paypal below:

Lovers and Leaders

One session $65.00 USD Three sessions $180.00 USD Whole series (1free) $585.00 USD

These workshops have measureable results! See testimonials from graduates, just click on "testimonials" at the top of the page.

Lovers & Leaders

LOVERS AND LEADERS PRACTICE GROUPS For Women FULL. Contact Blair to join wait list for next session, starting fall 2012.
NYC; 10 Alternate Wednesdays, May 2 -Aug. 22; 7-8:45 pm; Chelsea $65.00 each, or three for $180; or whole series of 10 for $585 (1 session free).

You can't develop who you want to be in a vacuum, and there is nothing that can accelerate and support your growth like a group of wise and committed women. We all struggle with making the changes that we want in our lives, and the right practices and the right group can help you develop exactly who you want to be. These groups will offer individual attention for your unique situation, and help you build the tools, connections and skills to access the courage to facilitate change in your own and other's lives. Read Testimonials for Lovers & Leaders here or by clicking "Testimonials" at the top of the page.

Pre-registration required! No need to commit to every group. Send an RSVP before the Monday of each group. 24-hour cancelation policy. Buy the groups in clusters or bulk for a discount! Send a check or pay by paypal below:

Lovers and Leaders

One session $65.00 USD Three sessions $180.00 USD Whole series (1free) $585.00 USD

These workshops have measureable results! See testimonials from graduates, just click on "testimonials" at the top of the page.

"What is your real work?" Professional Development for Women

Currently, Blair runs the "What is Your Real Work?" Professional Development workshops for women on a seasonal basis, see scheduled upcoming dates. Workshops can be attended on a singular basis, however, the entire series is designed so that by the end of the four workshops, each woman will emerge with: a greater sense of personal authority; a clear path to satisfying work and pleasure; a tribe of support backing her; confidence in her ability to direct her life, and an array of effective tools she can use to get her where she wants to go, or to get moving again when she gets stuck.

Blair will schedule the series below privately for organizations or small groups of women that want to participate in seasonal pieces of growth together. Call for more info.

I. What is your real work? An exploration of sisterhood, self-expression and personal power in the "work"place
October 14-16, 2011
One-Day Version (Tools and clarity, minus amazing bonding, food and nature of weekend): October 2, Woodstock; November 5, Chelsea

An intimate weekend workshop for women exploring the themes of power, growth and self-expression as it pertains to work, and I mean that word (work) on all the levels that it exists. Whether you have a literal job that you would like to feel more connected to, or you are moving in a new and unknown direction, this workshop is an opportunity to come together as conscious women to connect with each other, nature and ourselves, for the purpose of exploring the role of work in our lives. We will play with and create tools to help you:

Where: SpiritPlay Studio in Woodstock, NY.
Cost: $600 includes organic, homemade, healthful food and dorm-style housing in the studio. Rooms are available at an extra cost. A list of nearby B and B's is available for those wanting to stay off site. One-Day $180.00 includes tea, fruit, water

Payment Options

"Work" Wknd Deposit $250.00 One-Day $180.00 Any wknd wksp in full $600.00

II. Holding Your Own, A Workshop for Women

The second in a series of workshops for women revolving around "work" related issues (see description of first in series above, attendance at first not required), this workshop usually is in the winter and utilizes the cold, stark landscape of winter to explore what it means to hold one's own: inside yourself and in relationship. Do you lose your voice and/or composure in arguments? Do you spend more time than needed in a state of inner collapse, with negative thoughts about yourself running the show? Do you want to stop conversations that go in a loop and get you nowhere? In sisterhood we will increase personal freedom, self-confidence and authority at work and in relationship by practicing negotiating difference from a grounded and non-reactive place. We will go within to the source of our inner strength and cultivate the stillness that winter reflects, accessing the parts of ourselves that help us to stand strong in our leadership. We will join in a shared and in-depth exploration of the following questions:

When: January 20-22, 2012
Where: SpiritPlay Studio in Woodstock, NY -- 2 hours North of NYC
Cost /accommodations: $600 includes home-cooked, organic (wherever possible) healthful meals and snacks, and dorm style accommodations (mattresses and airbeds are supplied, bedding and pillows must be brought). There are many B&B's nearby for those interested in staying off-site.

Work Workshops Series

"Holding Your Own" Workshop Deposit $250.00 Pay in Full $600.00

III. Character Development
The third in a series of workshops related to work (series attendance not required), Character Development is all about engaging your creativity and achieving effectiveness in work and relationship. What role are you still enacting from the family play? Are you stuck in good girl, troublemaker, superflake, or black sheep? We will focus on the inner work of clearly identifying the "scripts" you have been taught to follow by family and others in your life, craft new roles, and practice letting go. We will focus on discernment (being able to distinguish what is healthy for you) and the outer work of creating the best types of environments, clothing and conversations that will get you where you want to be, feeling great about yourself and the kind of impact you are making in the world around you. We will join in sisterhood for a shared and in-depth exploration of::

When: Friday June 1, 3:00pm -Sunday June 3, 3:30pm; 2011
Where: SpiritPlay Studio in Woodstock, NY -- 2 hours North of NYC
Cost /accommodations: $600 includes home-cooked, organic (wherever possible) healthful meals and snacks, and dorm style accommodations (mattresses and airbeds are supplied, bedding and pillows must be brought). There are many B&B's nearby for those interested in staying off-site.

Work Workshops Series

"Character Dev." Workshop Deposit $250.00 Pay in Full $600.00

IV. The Work of Rest: PLEASURE AND PLAY
The fourth in a series of workshops related to work (series attendance not required), The Work of Rest is perhaps the most important of the series! Are you addicted to work and struggle with how to make useful choices in the daily juggle of work, family, creativity, alone time? What is a healthy work/life balance for YOU? In a country in which we all are always working too hard, it is imperative that we learn how to rest, temper anxiety, experience true and deep pleasure, and know how to play. We will join in sisterhood for a shared and in-depth exploration of:

When: Two options! Friday August 3, 3:00pm - Sunday Aug. 5, 3:30pm ; 2012
Where: SpiritPlay Studio in Woodstock, NY -- 2 hours North of NYC
Cost /accommodations: $600 includes home-cooked, organic (wherever possible) healthful meals and snacks, and dorm style accommodations (mattresses and airbeds are supplied, bedding and pillows must be brought). There are many B&B's nearby for those interested in staying off-site.

Work Workshops Series

"Rest" Workshop Deposit $250.00 Pay in Full $600.00

These workshops have measureable results! See testimonials from graduates, just click on "testimonials" at the top of the page.

Testimonials from Lovers and Leaders

"The last six months threw big challenges my way-- I was laid off from my job, and went through a cancer diagnosis and surgery. Lovers & Leaders helped me not only get through both of these situations, but actually emerge on the other side with the confidence to start my own business, take steps to feel stronger in my body, and stay in-tune to all the love in my life."

"Since joining Lovers & Leaders, I have gotten much better at taking the time to calm down and to listen to what my body wants. The grounding exercise we do at the beginning of every session helps me clear my head, relax, and be more open to listening to my own body and to what the other members of the group have to share. I am learning how to question myself in such a way that can be difficult but is almost always useful. I have taken a hard look at the meaning to me of pleasure, resignation, and fantasy. I also receive an incredible amount of reinforcement from the other women in the group. And I feel comfortable sharing anything with them, knowing that the response will always be loving and supportive."

"Lovers & Leaders has been an amazing growth opportunity for me. In the company of amazing and powerful women, I've learned so much about myself as a leader in business and as the leader of my own life - a concept that sounds strikingly simple and yet has been a struggle for me. In a comparatively short time, I've grown significantly, making realizations that have helped me steer my own destiny in a way that feels aligned with my own truth."

Testimonials from the Work Workshop Series

“Earlier on in the workshop, I sensed that something powerful was happening and I walked away from our first weekend together knowing that something deep was shifting inside of me. Yes, I felt welcomed and cared for, and was pleased with the environment and our surroundings in nature. But I also felt a deep sense of personal tailoring. My sense was that Blair had created a basic outline for our journey, but was extraordinarily open to meeting us each where we were and tuning the workshop as we went along. I was anxious about the loose structure; where was my agenda, outline, handouts, workbook and name badge? What kind of workshop is this? But as we went along, I could see the value in allowing things to unfurl organically. I was able to explore my beliefs and emotions more deeply this way, without the safety of shutting myself down in order to go along with a prescribed agenda. I have returned to my life after each workshop a different person; someone closer to authenticity.” [Read More...]

“I've learned to see where I compromise my vision, sometimes wisely, and sometimes to my detriment. I've learned to really see other people, my affect on them, and their affect on me and to do a better job at exposing myself even at the risk of discomfort or rejection. This was sometimes extremely uncomfortable. But they were risks I'd never learned to take and my unwillingness to put myself out there is a big part of my stagnation.

At the core, these workshops have given me the opportunity to be an independent young woman, and I have really grown and grown up as a result. I am so proud of myself and amazed at how powerful I am. ”

–TR, 36, Left finance, got a more flexible and creative job in the production industry, with pay raise 4 months after first workshop

“I wanted to shift in a big way, I would say I got what I wanted! I am more resolute about being some kind of coach/counselor, since I got home I have been playing with different ideas of how to get there. I am not sure how it will play out, but I feel more energy and passion about it as opposed to reasons why I "can't" . The feeling of possibility is leading the way even though there is still a certain level of fear and doubt, but honestly I don't expect those feelings to be gone after a weekend! Let's just say that the tone has been set and I am on my way!” -Susan Marco, 53, Long Branch, NJ, Massage Therapist/Spiritual Health Facilitator. Contact Susan through my Contact Page if you want to know more about her experience

Other amazing empowerment stories and testimonials from motivated and satisfied clients: